review of redhead by the side of the road

It is made up of a lot of quiet self-denial, slow realisations and small acts of great bravery.“The only place I went wrong, he writes, was expecting things to be perfect. Would I recommend this novel? I would not not recommend it, but beware that this is a slow burn and the pay-off is there but only if you appreciate that this book is about the unremarkable side of life. Maybe this is just a realistic portrayal of the Everyman – misogynism is rampant and both genders often keep it to themselves. His beliefs harm his relationships in the long run but bad break-ups happen every day for countless reasons. But besides being overtly critical of women, he is too mild-mannered to actually express his opinions and cause any direct offence. Micah is not even remotely aware his beliefs are toxic and outdated.

(There was a definite difference between ‘running the world’ and ‘keeping it running.’)” I can’t be sure why Tyler wrote him this way. He likes women matronly and discreet, and admires what he thinks is their natural talent for order: “Women kept the world running, really. Though this novel is a gentle and compassionate portrait of an Everyman and mostly steers clear of controversy or politics, you can’t ignore Micah’s archaic views of femininity. This story reminded me faintly of Nabokov’s (more poignant) Pnin – a lonely man who despite his good intentions lacks ease and grace in his social interactions. The rest of the cast is much louder than Micah, and his struggle to deal with big personalities draws out the reader’s sympathy for the protagonist. The initial floundering of the story is easily forgiven once we see more interaction between Micah and his family, girlfriend and the teenage boy and his parents. This works because that’s real life: most people’s first reaction to disappointment or dissatisfaction is not to immediately put the world to rights, confront whoever gets in their way or to ask or answer meaningful questions. But how could that be? He does everything correctly! His inner conflict starts to get interesting, and so does the way Anne Tyler writes quiet moments of frustration and confusion. And then it finds it – Micah starts to realise that he is not as happy as he imagined that he may in fact be quite dissatisfied with some aspects of his life. So I struggled with the first third of the novel it felt like it was dragging itself across the floor, gasping for breath.

He even fantasises about being praised by a Traffic God as he drives, proud to do it impeccably. A lot of time is spent early on showing us that “Micah prided himself on his housekeeping.” Like, a lot.

Review of redhead by the side of the road